Screening & Safety
UPDATE 22/05: For the month of June only, I will be taking social distancing dates! I am taking prebookings for my return to contact work in mid July. To minimise health risks I will only be taking on one lover per fortnight and I will be enforcing a 2 hr booking minimum and a minimum of 7 days notice if you would like to secure a date with me. In the meantime please see my digital services and a link to my online pornographic content below.
All Bookings: Phone number & Photo ID showing your full name and picture. If I am meeting you at your residence I also require proof of address. You may use a drivers license, work ID, student card, passport, country club membership - anything that shows your full name and picture - and you are more than welcome to obscure, draw over, or crop any other unrelated details. If I am meeting you at a hotel room, your hotel booking confirmation displaying your full name is acceptable in place of photo ID.
My screening policy applies to all clients. There are no exceptions. While I understand that there are numerous reasons why a client may not feel comfortable supplying personal information, please understand that I place my emotional and physical safety in your hands by allowing you into my personal space and giving you access to my body. My screening is my insurance policy to merely protect myself and ensure that any funny business can be held accountable to the full extent of the law.
My policy has been designed with my psychology background to guide me in helping to make quick and accurate judgements about a person's character and so far it has been 100% accurate. It is both a compatibility and empathy test for each client. If you choose not to comply with or attempt to step around my comfort measures regarding screening, it signals to me that you find it acceptable to attempt to push boundaries - this is classic pattern behaviour, not simply innocent negotiation. Anyone who wants to negotiate on my comfort and safety does not respect me. If you believe your anonymity is more important than my safety and comfort then I can only assume you are lacking in respect and empathy for the risk I would be undertaking in providing my services to you. Whether that's due to ignorance or due to thinking that the risk is "just part of the job" and I should accept that and forgo my safety and humanity for money, I do not wish to spend time with you. I trust actions, not words and no matter how many times you tell me you're safe, polite, "clean", attractive etc until you follow protocol, I'm simply not interested.
If you are concerned about the safety of your information in the digital world I have several safe guards to protect against the accidental leaking of your info. Your screening is stored on a password protected device with no links to cloud hosting services and cannot be accessed remotely. You are welcome to send your screening information via encrypted messaging services such as Signal or Wickr. I will download a copy of this info onto my secure device. If you are worried about the misuse of the information you have given, I can assure you that whatever minor damage can be done with just your full name and photo is not worth ruining my business and reputation for. If anyone insists they must see your full ID containing your license number, expiry, date of birth and address, then you might have some cause for concern on the identity theft front, but a name and picture poses no risk to you in that regard. And let's be honest here, you probably share a much more incriminating amount of information on your facebook timeline and unencrypted message apps and txts than your full name and picture to an escort with a legitimate reason to protect your privacy.
I will only share your personal information in the circumstance that you have harmed me in some way and your info would be passed on to law enforcement. This may include but is not limited to such things as refusal of payment, fraudulent payment, reversal of payment transactions, trying to perform acts that have not been discussed and consented to, deceptive removal or breaking of the condom, purposefully causing injury, continuing to push boundaries when I have said no, attempting to grope me or engage in any sexual activity while I am sleeping and therefore not able to consent during overnight and multi-day bookings, making threats, coercion, physical violence, harassment and stalking among many other common issues that women and sex workers especially face every day. I'm not a "feminazi" or a "man hater" and I don't think all clients are out to hurt sex workers. I love men and I love my clients as dear friends, but I'm simply a realist and prefer to approach these matters based on crime statistics, scientific and sociological evidence. If you do not intend to do any of these harmful things to me, complying with my screening practices poses no risk to you. It's very simple.
If you are still concerned or a person in the public eye I am happy to sign an NDA which would become void should you endanger me or breach the terms of my consent in any of the ways I have mentioned above.
Deposits & Payment
Melbourne: A 20-50% non-refundable deposit via Prezzee.com.au Beem It or CBA Smart ATM is required for all bookings depending on booking type, location and duration. The exact percentage required is at my discretion upon booking.
Tours: A $200 per hour or 50% for extended bookings non-refundable deposit is required via Prezzee.com.au Beem It or CBA Smart ATM for all tour bookings.
Fly Me To You: 50% of the entire booking fee and full flight, travel & accommodation costs via Prezzee.com.au Beem It or CBA Smart ATM is required for all Fly Me to You bookings.
Deposits are a requirement for all bookings. My deposit requirement works in tandem with my screening requirements to ensure that you value my time, safety and comfort. The options I have provided are both discreet and convenient. Bank transfers/osko are acceptable at my discretion with appropriate notice.
The remainder of my compensation for our time together can be paid in cash upon arrival before our date begins. Please leave it on a table for me to collect and give me a moment to ensure the amount is correct. Full prepayments via Prezzee.com.au beemIt or CBA SmartAtm deposits are more than welcome up to 30 days before our booking - if the booking has not occurred after 30 days a 30% holding fee will be deducted from the amount and you would need to provide 30% in addition to the original fee for the booking to go ahead. Credit card facilities are unavailable at this time.
Cancellations & Rescheduling
Melbourne: Deposits are non-refundable if you must cancel. Your deposit is forfeit if you wish to reschedule to a different day with less than 24 hrs notice. If I am given more than 24 hrs notice you may reschedule your appointment to another time and carry that deposit over for your rescheduled booking within 30 days once. If you must reschedule again after the first reschedule or you fail to reschedule within 30 days of your original appointment your deposit is forfeit and you must provide another should you wish to make another booking.
If you wish to change the duration and/or type of your booking to one that costs less than the deposit you have already paid, there are no refunds of the difference and if you should chose to do so with less than 24hrs notice, you are liable for the full fee of the original booking duration and type should you wish for any part of the booking to go ahead.
While full prepayments or a larger than requested deposit is welcome, the amount you submit is your non-refundable deposit and you are not entitled to any return of the fee upon cancelling. You may transfer the excess amount beyond my requirement to a rescheduled date within 30 days, but you must supply another deposit to secure this. After 30 days the full amount you submitted is forfeit.
Tours: Tour deposits are non-refundable. If you wish to reschedule with less than 48hrs notice your deposit is forfeit and you would need to provide another if you wish to see me, availability permitting. You may attempt to reschedule with more than 48 hrs notice, however that is subject to availability and if I can't fit you in your deposit is forfeit.
While full prepayments or a larger than requested deposit is welcome, the amount you submit is your non-refundable deposit and you are not entitled to any return of the fee upon cancelling, but may reschedule for that tour subject to availability. If I do not have the availability to fit you in the full amount that you have submitted is forfeit.
Fly me to you: Fly me to you deposits are non-refundable. If you have prepaid in full I will refund you the amount that exceeds my deposit requirement for that booking minus any associated costs for the booking. This may include food, drinks, accommodation, flights, outfits, equipment etc.
In the very rare circumstance that I am unable to make our appointment due to illness or special circumstances, I will do my best to reschedule for a time that is convenient for you or hold on to your deposit to use when you or I are next in town. If rescheduling is impossible I will refund your deposit minus any associated costs for the booking made at your request. This may include food, drinks, accommodation, outfits, equipment etc.
You are not entitled to a refund of your deposit or any part of the full fee if I must cancel before or during the booking due to inappropriate and ungentlemanly conduct on your part which makes me feel unsafe or uncomfortable in any way. This may include but is not limited to asking for natural sex, pushing boundaries, attempting to engage in acts that have not been discussed or consented to, alluding to or attempting to grope me or engage in any sexual activity while I am sleeping and therefore not able to consent during overnight and multi-day bookings, any demeaning or threatening language, constant txting, emailing, calling or harassment, demanding free pictures or videos or refusal to provide screening info.
There are NO refunds or discounts if you present with signs of poor sexual health or hygiene, but an alternative safe service will be on offer. Your sexual health and the job of cleaning your body, underneath your foreskin, in between your buttocks and other areas is your responsibility, so please ensure you bathe yourself thoroughly and see your doctor regularly for STI screening (every 3 months is recommended) even if you are in a long-term relationship and see your doctor if you have any visual or physical symptoms.
How to Receive Your Refund
In the case that a refund is granted as per the conditions above, there are two options. If you are with a major bank I am happy to deposit to your account via smart atm or if you are not you must download and register for the Beem It app.
Beemit is a relatively new, discreet and instant payment platform created by the big four banks. The only information that appears on your bank statement when sending is "Beem It beem.com.au" and the amount you have sent and "Refund Purchase Beem It" when receiving. Obviously you will need to verify your identity with the app, but the people you send to or receive from do not get that info and strict privacy policies are adhered to as you would expect from the big four. Head to for more info.
If neither of these options work for you, you cannot receive your refund.
Verification & Credibility
"I would like to see your ID too to prove you're real" is something I often hear from individuals who think they're clever and have managed to spot a hole in the veil of my alleged scam and beat me at my own game! HUZZAH!
The reasons sex workers tend to keep their legal names and often faces and identifying tattoos private is not so that they can scam you, but because of the increased security and discrimination risk our community faces in regards to being targets of stalking, harassment, hate crimes, and violence as well as being outed as sex workers to our families and having our jobs used against us in custody battles, our bank accounts shut down and the like. In my case, I show my face and important people in my life know and are proud of the work I do, however for some people this can create some incredibly difficult and even dangerous situations and lots of emotional trauma. While many of us are proud of our jobs, and open-minded individuals like yourself do not see us as worthy of disrespect simply for choosing a career that suits us, the current stigma around being a sex worker poses risks to women who dare to engage in the industry. Please be mindful of this when asking workers who conceal identifying features to share face pictures and such with you before you have extended the olive branch of complying with screening.
That said, it does unfortunately happen that dodgy workers do run off with deposits or bait and switch providers (common with agencies) by sending a completely different person to the one in the ad. The best way to avoid this is to research your preferred escort before making contact. If they do not have at least one other verification method other than the ad you spot, such as social media accounts with organic tweets and pictures, or a personalised website that has had some thought put into the design and text, you might want to search for another worker who does. If you do not do your due diligence, you are at a higher risk of being scammed. Read more about researching your chosen escort and protecting yourself on my blog!
For verification purposes I provide:
Verification Subsection A
I have been verified across multiple platforms and advertising sites which each have their own methods of verification and one of the more popular sites for clients even has a collection of excellent testimonials written by lovers who have spent time with me.
Verification Subsection B
I make amateur porn which I post to manyvids, OnlyFans and AP Clips which all require photo ID for age verification upon sign up as a performer. AND you can see me naked and naughty!
Verification Subsection C
I update my twitter account which has accrued over 9,000 followers daily with pictures and videos. My instagram with over 1,500 followers is also updated semi regularly.
Verification Subsection D
My primary business venture involves boudoir photography and other media services for other sex industry professionals. Some of whom are quite high profile and have given extremely high praise in their testimonials on twitter about my media services. (Side note: no, I do not see clients for photo shoots as part of goddess photography, but I do include an exhibitionist fantasy shoot at my current sex work rates plus $50/ea for edited images. Please do not attempt to work around this boundary and book me through my photography business in an attempt to satisfy any sexual curiosities at a cheaper rate, MANY have tried and I can spot it a mile away)
You would be quite hard pressed to find a more verifiable escort. Unless you can also provide all of the above to screen for your session, your ID and deposit will have to do in its place.